A Whippersnapper's Post

Today my mom told me she is proud of me. On a day that is all about her. On a day where she deserves more than my late gift. The day where, if possible, the world and time should literally spin backward to provide a replay of all the happy memories she is surely reflecting on. But no, instead she turns the spotlight on me and I am the blessed one whose mom never fails to encourage and uplift - even on Mother's day.

 Isn't that just the example us "children" never knew we were desperate for? Selflessness. It's strikes me that THAT is the ultimate job of moms. Under the layers of boogers and what's left of the baby food jar...past the point of no return when adolescent attitudes begins and independence strikes...beyond the tears of each passing grade level and major life events...you will find the one who stands tightly grasping her trophy of selflessness. 

 The truth is, however, it is I who am proud. I am proud to know my mother by many names, in fact. "Mommy"..."Friend"..."Confidant"...the list goes on and continues to grow the older I get. And at this point in life, I don't know what it's like to be mom. But I once read a book that described how the Lord calls all women to be mothers. Which isn't to be confused with child bearing necessarily. Rather He has specifically designed women to reflect a tender, loving, nurturing heart. My mom gave me that book. And whether she knows it or not, believes it or not, she has always been that kind of mother to me and many others. I'm proud of her for choosing His love first to be the example. I'm proud of her heart and I'm proud to call her mine. :)

I must also take a moment to dedicate a special sentiment to my mother-in-law. She has claimed me from day one and I have enjoyed the last 9 years of our growing relationship. Perhaps few can relate to what we have. But I love it - and I love her like my second mom! Thank you for always believing in me just as you do your own kids. For the many years of laughter and adventure (Texas, turkeys, and technology!). And for way you selflessly give of yourself.

Happy Mother's Day to all you moms. And a big thanks for the selflessness with which you mother us all. I'm sure sometimes it feels less like selflessness and more like "please, Lord, get me through this day without losing it." (Hold your trophies close when you've made it through! lol) May your day be filled with love from us whippersnappers you so proudly claim. I, for one, am proud to claim my mom on this day and all the others.

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